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What are relationships?

I was going to write a bit about what I think relationships are and what different kinds of relationships there are. A relationship for me is a word for how it is between people.
But do you have relations to everyone? If someone is in love that must mean that they have a good relation but if you have a bad relation does that mean that you don’t like each other or does it mean that you don’t know each other very well? If it means that you don’t like each other the word relationship is just a word for how well you know a person but I think the word has two different meanings. For instance, two guys have a relation, it can be good or bad for how well they know each other and it can be good or bad, if they hate each other or are friends.

There must be millions of different relations but the first one you think of if you here the word is probably a boy and a girl that are together and what is the difference between that relation and other relations? In many cases you can see how they act but what else decides what kind of relation you have? Maybe there aren’t any more you can see, it’s just the two that knows since all we see is that they are walking beside each other. A love-relation is between two people that like each other and have entered each other’s lives and do everything together since they feel that they have to be with each other to feel complete and when they aren’t they are walking around thinking of each other. The strongest relation that exists is probably the family. The family is beside you all your life, you grow up and learn from them and live with them most time of your life and when your are grown up you find someone to create a family of your own with and you get new strong relations.

Another important relation is to your friends. They are your spare time!
Your friends keep you from being stuck at your own house your whole life.
In your spare time you and your friends plan fun things, do fun things and if you ever need help your friends are there for you.

In these days many people sit on the Internet in different chatrooms and try to find their big love or maybe friends. I think that people choose this way to communicate since many think it’s easier to talk with someone when you’re not standing eye to eye with each other. But there is always the risk that the people you talk to can lie about their appearance, age and everything. I spend pretty much time in front of the computer and play games and chat on MSN and the game I play is played by over ten million people all over the world so I meet and create relations every day.

Many of the people that I play with are Swedes and when we get to know each other a bit we can talk to each other through the computer, which makes the game more fun.
One day I met two guys in the game that also go to Parkskolan so now I have found two new friends that I meet and say hi to every day.
Every time you meet a new person a new relation has started and a relation can be very important but also very meaningless depending on what kind of relation it is.

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