Freeway - Relationships

Relationships – good and bad

Relationships are an important piece of our life. Everybody have some kind of relationship with someone, for an example a sister, friend or mother.
The relations don't have to be good (the kind of relation that make you feel happy and safe), it can be the total opposite. I think we can say that humans are creatures that live in a flock, and without some kind of friend they would feel very unhappy and insecure. I also think that many people like to have some kind of relationship with someone, healthy or unhealthy rather than no relationship at all.

The relations you have with different people aren't all the same, for an example you don't have the same relation to your mum as you have to your boyfriend, so if you would feel some kind of loneliness or happinness for you mother you probably wouldnt feel the same kind of things for your boyfriend. There are probably different kinds of loneliness or happiness.

You can read in most magazines and newspapers about mostly women who have left their husband/boyfriend after years of physical abuse, insecurity and loneliness. Eventhough they felt that way they stayed with them, and you can ask the question, why?

Why do someone put up with any kind of brutality, and let someone treat and destroy ones life like that?
You love the person and probably think that he or she will change into the person they fell in love with, instead of be the horrible person they end up being.
The fear of what would happen if you leave the person is certainly strong, the future without the person scares you. By that time you probably would have to consider if it is really worth it feeling that terrible.
You probably love the person, but if you feel unhappy you really have to consider if it is worth living with this person anymore.

One example of this strange relationship is that you meet this wonderful person. He/she makes you feel good and after a while you fall in love with him/her. You move in together and you can't believe how someone like you could be this lucky, meeting that person. A couple of months go by and the love of your life starts to act differently, he/she starts to transform to this monster who wants to take control of your entire life. He/she decides who you can be with, and turns out to be this really jealous type. You think that it's just a phace and you both will come out of it, but you start to feel very alone and sad, and at some point even scared of the person who in the beginning you thought to be very nice to you.

Many women, and men in this world feel like this right now and are also being treated in a similar way. That kind of relationship is probably the most terrible and horrible relation to live in. No one in this entire world deserve to feel that kind of loneliness and insecurity towards the person they love and I hope that I will not experience it either.